Purpose in Retirement: Redefining What Comes Next

By
Christian Harris, CFP®, CKA®
November 24, 2025
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One of the biggest surprises for many new retirees isn’t money — it’s meaning.

After years of working, raising a family, and managing responsibilities, retirement often brings a major shift. The calendar opens up. The pace changes. And many people begin asking questions they didn’t have space to explore earlier:

What do I want this season of my life to look like? How do I want to spend my time? What feels important now?

Through conversations with retirees over the years, I’ve seen that the transition into retirement goes more smoothly when people think about it not just as a financial change but as a personal one — a chance to rethink priorities and intentionally shape the next chapter.

Here are a few ideas to help you explore what comes next.

 

1. Give Yourself Time to Adjust

Even when retirement is planned and welcomed, it’s still a major life transition. It’s normal to experience a mix of emotions — excitement, relief, curiosity, or uncertainty.

Purpose doesn’t always emerge immediately. Many retirees need time to find a new rhythm, and giving yourself space to adjust can make the transition feel more natural.

 

2. Rediscover What Brings You Joy

During your working years, hobbies and interests often take a back seat. Retirement creates room to revisit old interests or try something new.

This might look like:

  • Volunteering with an organization you care about
  • Mentoring someone younger
  • Getting more involved in your community
  • Traveling or exploring the outdoors
  • Spending time on a creative hobby

Purpose doesn’t have to be complex — often it’s simply about being engaged in activities that feel meaningful or enjoyable.

 

3. Invest in Relationships That Matter

Many retirees say that meaningful relationships play a significant role in their overall sense of connection during this season.

Whether it’s regular time with family, coffee with a friend, joining a community group, or staying connected with people from work, being intentional about relationships can add structure and enjoyment to your weekly routine.

 

4. Find Opportunities to Share Your Experience

After decades of work and life experience, many retirees have knowledge and perspective that others find valuable. Sharing that experience can be a rewarding way to stay involved.

This could include:

  • Mentoring younger professionals
  • Serving on a board or committee
  • Helping a local nonprofit
  • Teaching, coaching, or offering guidance in an area you enjoy

Many organizations — including those here in the Phoenix area — appreciate the insight retirees can bring.

 

5. Align Your Finances With Your Priorities

Retirement planning isn’t only about covering expenses. It’s also about supporting the lifestyle and priorities you care about during this stage of life.

For some people, that might mean travel. For others, it might involve charitable giving, helping family members, or simply creating a structure for their spending that reflects their values.

Part of my role as a fee-only financial planner is helping clients understand how their financial resources can support the activities and goals that matter most to them — not by predicting outcomes, but by providing clarity and structure so they can make informed decisions.

 

6. Keep Learning and Growing

Growth doesn’t have to end when work does. Many retirees enjoy continuing to learn — whether that’s through classes, reading, fitness, volunteering, or other personal pursuits.

This doesn’t need to be complicated or demanding. Even light structure or modest goals can help bring a sense of continuity and direction to this new season.

 

Bringing It All Together

Retirement is more than the end of a career. It’s a transition that opens the door to a different pace, new opportunities, and a chance to focus more intentionally on what matters to you.

The clients I’ve seen navigate this stage most smoothly tend to be those who approach it with openness — giving themselves time to adjust, exploring their interests, and aligning their finances with their priorities.

If you’re preparing for retirement or already in it and want to understand how your financial plan can support the direction you’d like to go, I’m always glad to discuss what that process might look like.

 

Purpose doesn’t disappear in retirement — it often shifts.

If you’d like help aligning your financial plan with the life you want to create in this next chapter, you can schedule a short Discovery Call with Stillwater Financial Planning.

 

Disclaimer: This is not an offer to buy or sell securities. No investment process is free of risk and there is no guarantee that the investment process described herein will be profitable. Investors may lose all of their investments. Past performance is not indicative of current or future performance and is not a guarantee.

Investment advice offered through IHT Wealth Management, a registered investment advisor

THE JOURNEY TO STILLWATER How I Got Here

My story with financial planning started earlier than most - my dad is a financial advisor, and I grew up around the business. But like a lot of kids, I had dreams of setting my own course.

After college, I worked at a marketing agency, spent time overseas, and eventually served on staff with Young Life. Ministry taught me the value of walking with people through the ups and downs of life. I loved that work - and I started to realize I wanted to find a career where I could keep helping people in meaningful, practical ways.

That’s what led me to financial planning.

I went back to school, earned my MBA and became a CFP®. After working at a major investment firm, I joined a high-end private family office, where I got to work closely with attorneys, CPAs, and clients on everything from tax and estate planning to charitable giving.

Both experiences were valuable - but they also exposed two ends of a spectrum. One was too templated and sales-focused. The other was custom and thoughtful, but only accessible to a very small, very wealthy group.

I wanted to serve real people - families in transition, professionals navigating complexity, couples trying to be wise stewards of what they’ve built. So I started Stillwater Financial Planning.

Next Steps

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You don’t have to figure this out on your own. If you’re looking for financial guidance that’s personal, clear, and grounded in what matters most - I’d be honored to connect.

Let’s talk about where you are, where you want to go, and how to build a plan that gets you there with peace and confidence.

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